Have you ever wondered HOW IMPORTANT you are and how much you effect those around you..and in turn effect those around them??

It is really a crazy thought..you by your actions, your words, your smile, your kindness, your frown, your knives they all effect the person they are directed at but in turn effect the people that, that person interacts with. So really if you think about it you could have contact with one person in your day, but be effecting 20....WOW that is big...Did you know that YOU, Your actions are really that important.

I have gotten to thinking about this a lot lately. As I have been reflecting on life, as we are approaching four months since my dad has passed.
Funny...this man who passed away, I really didn't like who he was, but he was my dad, I don't like anything that he did, and I have scars in my life from him, but again he was my dad. I exited him from my life nine years ago or so, and haven't actually had any contact with him other then on the phone and receiving birthday cards in seven years. Actually if we are to get technical I haven't had contact with him directly in two years. Any contact has been through a lawyer, a nurse or a social worker, or the man that has called my moms on behalf of my dad with information. Yet...this man, my father who I exited from my life has effected my life for life(he effected the years he was apart of my life, in turn effected the years he was not..and I am sure will have some effect on the years to come)..he has effected the lives of those who get close to me, he has effected the lives of every boyfriend I have ever had and will have. He has effected the way I see things, he has placed fears in me, which will effect those around me.......What Power He has had.....

Now that is a negative example but it is the first that comes to mind and it is the one that got me to thinking about how powerful you are...and what kind of power do you want to have on someone Else's life. This man has died and he is still effecting my life..and the scars that he left I am sure no matter how much I try in life I will never be able to make them completely disappear, and some people may be able to look past the scars that I have, others wont be able to and others still will be effected by getting a closer look at them. The scars he has left on me will never just effect me even if I try hard to only let them effect me..in reality he has effected each person that comes into contact with me.

So again I ask you what kind of effect do you want to have on those around you....you have the power to make or break someones day, you also have the power to wound someone or help them to see how wonderful they really are.....Just remember your power your actions, your smile, your frown, your yelling, your laughing, your anger, your kindness it doesn't just effect you. It doesn't just effect the person it is being directed at, and it may not just only effect today.